Dating know loser when youre
More than looks, more than money, more than whatever nebulous definition you want to give to “value” or “status”, the most attractive aspect of a man, that x-factor that nets him attention, attraction and dates is… Over the years as I was trying to make my transition from “dateless loser” to “ladies man”, I got to know a wide variety of folks who were good with women.
Some were blessed with every advantage – classic good looks, money and charm – while others had to work for their success.
It’s a very simple premise: we instinctively like people who make us feel good.
The better they make us feel, the more we like them.
They were not classically handsome – in fact, many of them were fat and balding.I get a charge from sharp women who enjoy that sort of witty duel-by-wordplay.When done properly, it’s a game of verbal sparring back and forth, matching wits and humor with gentle ribbing and sexually charged teasing…This is part of why a sense of humor ranks so highly in every poll about what makes men attractive.Laughter produces endorphins that go straight to the pleasure centers of your brain and relieves physical tension and stress in the muscles making you feel more relaxed.