Sex chat with mother live
My mother has been living with us for the past year and a half.
My husband didn’t love the idea, but I convinced him it was only for a short time.
Clearly, your marriage suffered a lack of communication and respect long before your husband had sex with your mother. When you say you feel great, safe, and confident in his company and angry when you’re alone, you sound desperate to aim the fury anywhere other than where it belongs: directed at the two people who betrayed you (including your husband! You’ve had only a few weeks to start processing this.
I’ll repeat that again: YOUR HUSBAND HAD SEX WITH YOUR MOTHER. It’s going to take a long, long time to truly wrap your head around what’s happened.
(Quick note: He and I and our newborn have been tested for HSV-2 as well as other STDs and have tested negative).
I’ve now had my mother move out and have ceased all communication with her (even though I work with her) and I’m trying to move on, but I want to stay with my husband.
He’s always been a GREAT husband, father, and best friend, and he says he will spend an eternity apologizing and making it right.
Of the few times we’ve spent together alone in the last week or so, I feel great, safe, and confident.
He unlocked his phone and deleted the message and said, “You’re being ridiculous.” I started losing my cool. ” My husband came in screaming, telling me to return to our bedroom because I’d lost my mind. The next afternoon, my mother suggested I see a therapist and maybe ask for an antidepressant after my pregnancy because I’m paranoid and anxious.
When I’m without him and alone, I become angry and begin to just break down under myself. Get it regardless of whether you decide to give your marriage another chance.
How do I continue this healing process without being a woman scorned and without ruining my marriage? Get it because you have been betrayed in the most hurtful way by the two people you trusted most.
Back in January when I was 9 months pregnant, I confided in my mother that my OB advised me not to have sex because of some pregnancy complications.
A few days later, my husband’s phone went off in the middle of the night, so I reached over to silence it and saw my mother’s name.